[dr1emaver]

//создаем сетку из ячеек дат
		private function buildGrid():void {
		_dates = new Array();
		var it:Number = 0;
		for (var i:Number = 0; i < 6; i++) {
		for (var j:Number = 0; j <= 7; j++) {
				if (j == 7) {
					break;
				}
					it++;
					var dateOfMonth:Number;
					dateOfMonth = it;
					var dayOfWeek:Number;
					dayOfWeek = j + 1;
					if (dayOfWeek == 7) {
						dayOfWeek = 0;
					}
				var bgDate:BgDate = new BgDate();
					addChild(bgDate);
					bgDate.x = j * (bgDate.width + BETWEENCELLS) + XGRID;
					bgDate.y = i * (bgDate.height + BETWEENCELLS) + YGRID;
 
					_dates.push([dateOfMonth, dayOfWeek, bgDate]);
				}
			}
		}
 
 
			//обработчик события MouseEvent.CLICK - здесь меняем месяцы и даты
		//и отправляем событие Calendar.CHANGEDATE
		private function onClick(e:MouseEvent):void {
 
			if (e.target is NextMonthButton || e.target is PrevMonthButton
			||e.target is NextYearButton || e.target is PrevYearButton) {
 
				if (e.target is NextMonthButton) {
					_currentMonth++;
					if (_currentMonth == 12) {
						_currentMonth = 0;
						_currentYear++;
						_textCurrentYear.text = _currentYear.toString();
					}
					_textCurrentMonth.text = _months[_currentMonth];
				} else if (e.target is PrevMonthButton) {
					_currentMonth--;
					if (_currentMonth == -1) {
						_currentMonth = 11;
						_currentYear--;
						_textCurrentYear.text = _currentYear.toString();
					}
					_textCurrentMonth.text = _months[_currentMonth];
				}
 
				if (e.target is NextYearButton) {
					_currentYear++;
					_textCurrentYear.text = _currentYear.toString();
				} else if (e.target is PrevYearButton) {
					_currentYear--;
					_textCurrentYear.text = _currentYear.toString();
				}
 
				dispatchEvent(new Event(CHANGEDATE));
			}
 
		}
	private function onDate (e:MouseEvent):void {
		trace ( _currentMonth+1);
		trace ( _currentYear);
		trace (_months[_currentMonth]);
	    trace( ); //тут вывести номер дня
	}
	}
 
}

в функции onDate надо вывести через trace день на иконку которого нажал.